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Selasa, 12 Mei 2009

TV is dead.

Tuesday really sucks when it comes to TV. There's nothing to watch. I remember when I was a teenager, that was between 1990-1995, TV was number one. Nobody had laptops and internet, there was no chats, no Twitter, no Facebook, no blogging, no online news or You-Tube. Sure, these things are nice, but they make us estranged and isolated. Where are those saturday evenings when the whole family gathered infront of the TV and watched a show together? A show that would be discussed on Monday with your school mates? Or those Saturday night movies like Rambo or Die Hard or some Arnie flick. I remember how the discussion about the movie was more exciting than the movie itself. Have you seen how he punched him? Have you seen how he tricked them all? Those where the times when you knew that action heroes are real heroes with high values and morals. It was predictable and sometimes silly, but I loved happy ends. I loved those last scenes where the hero kissed a woman or where the kid said: Dad, I love you and he replied: I love you, too, champ.
And what we have now? A Batman full of vengeance, a blond James Bond full of anger? Most of the movies nowadays are sometimes so complicated, that you really don't get the begining and the end. Some just don't make sense and a happy end is rather exceptional than the norm. Movies nowadays are about special effects rather than plots. That's why you get something for the eye, but nothing for the brain and heart. There's exceptions, of course. But I'm talking about Bolly I mean Hollywood, the mainstream suppliers of movies. (Where's the difference anyway?) So, sometimes, when I off my laptop and sit infront of the TV, I just keep switching those channels and there's nothing to watch. Always, when I'm online on my laptop reading or writing a blog, I have CNN on. 10 years ago I would have MTV on... But what can I do? MTV is dead, too! I'm sick of those moronic 'reality shows' like Rock of Love or Paris Hilton looks for BFF. These shows are all fake and trashy. MTV should change its name, it's not a music television anymore. It's a freaking Freak show TV (what a sentence, if you use this one, please quote me). Anyway. TV is dead. It's shallow, fake and boring. One day I will tell my kids how it used to be. They will hardly believe me.
So, TV is dead. Internet is now about 15 years old, it's a teenager. Soon it'll be full age, then grown up... and it'll die around 2050 (my prediction). I'm sure something else will be born instead. But who knows... Ok, I'm switching off now.
(Garfield)

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Sabtu, 09 Mei 2009

Faithful


I was always faithful to others. But seldom faithful to myself. It seems as whenever I made a decision in the past where I would really follow my own will, my own desire, I hurt someone. Why do we sometimes decide to be loyal to ourselves and hurt others by doing so? I hate situations where I'm deciding between 2 lives to be fundamentally changed by my decision. And whatever I'd chose, I'd make at least one person unhappy. Sometimes even miserable. So why can life (let's say life is something real) be so unfair? I know it can't be. Life doesn't know 'fair' and 'unfair'. Life knows nothing. Life is what we project into the idea behind the word 'life'. It's a process. Some people just live, do what they want, betray others, lie, never keep their word - but they're happy! I always try to please everyone. To keep my word is holy to me. Holy as the holy father to the pope. But always striving to be perfect, to be honest, friendly, polite, true... it's tough. I'm not claiming I don't lie at all. But my lies are harmless. It's those white lies or those that make the truth look a bit nicer. Mostly I try not to lie by avoiding a topic that would make me lie if I had to talk about it. But all these things are unimportant. I did not betray anyone in a long long time. I did not wish bad to anyone in a long long time. If I did, it was because I felt the person was mean or unjust to me or to someone close to me. I don't wish bad to anyone in this world. I want people to be happy and successful. Seriously. I mean, is my reality any better or worse if someone is happy or unhappy? Not if this person is not involved in my life. So, now we're in a recession. I'm in one since I graduated 2 years ago. I didn't have the best job waiting for me afterwards, even though I finished as one of the best at our top university. I made some tough choices in these recent years. My life could've been totally different. But what good can happen if I dwell on the choices that I made in the past? Nothing. Completely nada. I just keep eating myself up and getting smaller and smaller. Yea, to be faithful to oneself is hard. Because people like that have it tough. I think I must change my mindset. I see people with less intellect and integrity, with less knowledge and humanity having a more successful life than me. I don't want to make the impression that I measure success in material things. But being almost jobless for so long is not a good perspective for a successful life. I work, but for what I do I could spare myself the 7 long years at the university. So if soon there will nothing heading my way (and the recession is not really promising in this regard), I will lose my patience, my mind and my faith in everything.

I hope I wake up soon. This dream is already wearing me out.

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Jumat, 08 Mei 2009

My tweet was on Larry King

,Two days ago, Larry King hosted Joy Behar, my favorite host of The View. I can watch The View only on You-Tube and I do that sometimes. I'm following Larry King on Twitter and I saw his message asking for thoughts on Joy Behar. So, just for fun, I wrote something and replied back very fast. And they showed my tweet on Larry King! You can see it on the screencap below. Thanks to twitterer TheNiceLife, who saw my Twitter-name on Larry King and sent me a tweet with the link to his blog, where I checked out the video with the Joy Behar interview. So, now I'm buddies with Jessica Alba and a serious pundit on CNN :P Just kidding.

[Photo: CNN video screencap]

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Senin, 23 Maret 2009

Tribute to Laura Ling and Euna Lee

Two American reporters, Laura Ling (on the left) and Euna Lee (on the right) were detained by North Korea. Allegedly they were illegally intruding in the great state of North Korea, crossing the border from China. I don't know what they were doing in those areas, but I hope they won't get harmed or abused in the great state of the beloved leader Kim Jong-gravely-ill. If you google Laura Ling, you'll see she's quite famous, while Euna is less so. Nevertheless, let's hope both of them will return safe and sound out of the great state of North Korea and won't be used for North Korean propaganda against the USA.

[Photos: Yahoo]

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Senin, 19 Januari 2009

Hong Kong: City of lights and skyscrapers

I'm back from Hong Kong (香港). It was a 5 days trip with my girlfriend and it was a unique experience. It was unlike anything I saw before. Hong Kong is the real Far east. If you want density, all kinds of pleasant and unpleasant smells, all kinds of food, modern skyscrapers among old run-down buildings, then you're at the right place.

We flew from Singapore on the 14th January at around 15h and arrived at the Hong Kong airport 3 hours later, it was already sunset when we reached there. The airport is located about 25min away from the Central MTR station. We bought the famous 'Octopus card' at the airport for about 30eur (you get 5eur refund later) and you can use the card 3 full days (72h) to travel everywhere with the MTR trains (Mass Transit Railway), plus 2 rides with the airport express train from the HK airport to HK Central and back are included. First you pay a little more, but you actually save a lot, if you plan on exploring the city. It's definitely worth it.
We arrived at the HK Central MTR station around 19h. There we transfered to another train to Kowloon, to the Yaumatei station. The train was so full, that the door hardly closed. Luckily it was only a 3 stations ride. When we came out of the subway, we saw this (see photo on the left): Nathan road. It's Hong Kong's busiest road, stretched many kilometers, covered by 4 MTR stations (Tsim sha Tsui, Jordan, Yaumatei and Mongkok). It's full of shops and restaurants, shopping malls and markets. I recommend Jordan night market, Mongkok night market and Ladies' street, also in Mongkok.
But Ladies' street was a disappointment for me, I prefer the Tung Choi street in Mongkok. Friday to sunday they close the road and pedestrians are all over the place. You have all kinds of things to shop: bags, souvenirs, fake Rolexes, gadgets, computers, whatever...
Just be careful when bargaining, the people are quite tough. I saw some western people how the bought a fake bag for maybe 10% discount. When I bargain, I beat down the price at least 70%, if not I don't buy. And it works. If they don't give you your price, go on, either they'll come after you and give you your price or you find someone else with the same thing and start over. Sooner or later you will be lucky. Don't buy too fast.
Well, the first day was quite cold, and it was dark already around 19h. We were so lost while walking along Nathan road. A friend recommended us the Evergreen hotel, so we kept asking people about the hotel, but nobody knew. It supposed to be near Nathan road. Well, we wandered around more than an hour, because we were so amazed by the lights and the buildings, so we forgot the time. We snapped many photos. Finally my girlfriend's friend texted us the name of the street and somehow we found the hotel. Funny was, we been so close to the hotel already, yet we turned around and went back... so we wasted a lot of time there, but that's just part of a big city adventure, right? Once we checked in (hotel cost 30eur per person per night, a bit more than we planned), we unpacked, washed up and I somehow convinced my girl friend to go out and see Hong Kong's night skyline. It was worth to go out!
The second day was full of adventure as well. We started with going to the Central, where we walked around, snapped many photos of the highrise buildings. We also went to the piers and then slowly back to the station. The most important destination of the day was the Tian Tan Buddha on Lantau island (located on the same island is also the HK international airport) it's 30min away by train, but with the regular MTR train, not the Airport express. One station before is the Disneyland. We skipped it, because we're not into this so much. The station we were headed was Tung Chung. It has a big shopping mall where you have many outlet stores, so if you're shopping for brands like Nike or Puma, it's much cheaper there.
Well, the best way to see the big Buddha is by sky train. If you're afraid of heights, better take a bus or cab, if not, take the sky train! It's a unique experience, it costs about 10eur (return ticket, per person). The ride is about 25min, you rise above the sea and mountains and you see the whole airport and the beautiful nature of the Lantau island. Even though I felt a bit unwell at first, I didn't regret to take the sky train.
My girlfriend was just the opposite, she was so into it at first, when inside, she suddenly felt unwell and didn't want to look down. Anyway, she got rewarded by the marvellous 34m tall bronze Tian Tan Buddha on the top of the hill. It's unbelievably amazing. When you alight the train, there's a small village-place for tourists with restaurants and souvenir shops. I bought me some funny souvenirs, one of which was a photo of chairman Mao supposedly bringing you good luck. Usually these souvenirs have Buddha or some other diety. Weird, but funny. Well, once you reach the Tian Tan Buddha, 5 min by foot, there's a lot of tourists, all snapping photos like crazy. There's a stairway leading up. Once you reach there, you see the whole majesty of this sculpture. It's breathtaking. And the view as well... I snapped many photos from all corners. But I realized, you can't fully grasp this Buddha on photos, you have to see it in real. It's a must if you visit Hong Kong.
We returned back around 19h and we went to the Avenue of Stars, it's the most southern tip of Kowloon, the one facing the marvellous Hong Kong skyline. Every day at 20h, they have a laser and light show from the most famous Hong Kong's skyscrapers. The show is backed up with music. It was nice and also full of people. This place is something like the Hollywood Walk of fame in Los Angeles, just that it keeps the fingerprints of the stars of Hong Kong cinema, like Bruce Lee, Jackie Chan, Andy Lau, Jet Li, Michelle Yeoh, Stephen Chow, Gong Li and Cecilia Cheung, to name the most famous.
The next day, I thought, since we bought the Octopus card, let's go and take many rides and try to see some temples. So we stopped at some MTR stations that had a temple near by. I recommend you Diamond hill. There's the beautiful Chi Lin Nunnery, a complex of many temples and gardens, clean and peaceful. We reached there in the morning, there was no tourist around. It's definitely a treasure.
After seeing 2 temples, we reached the Central, we made a huge circle from central kowloon to eastern Kowloon, to the eastern Hong Kong and back to the western part, where the entral is located. We went out at night, walked around. There was many western people in clubs and pubs, but we returned back home to the hotel.
For the next two nights we transfered to another hotel which cost us about 17eur per person. The room was small, a double bed and a toilet, small useless window and a TV. But it was nice and clean. It was in Mongkok and recommended by one of my girlfriend's colleagues, who happened to be in Hong Kong in that day, but she was deprating the next day. We had 2 more days. We saved quite some money, which we later spent on souveniers and some clothes and a bag.
After going to so many places, the next 2 days we just took it easy, we stayed in Mongkok a lot, went to eat and shop there, slept longer. We were exhausted! So when we packed all the things for the check out, I suggested to go to the Victoria peak. It's one of the top destinations in Hong Kong, every tourist must go there. We had a whole afternoon to spend, the flight back was at 2020. We checked out at 12h, it wasn't a warm goodbye from the auntie in charge. And we took the train to Central, walked outside, followed the signposts for the Peak tram.
It was so hot the last day and sunny, must be almost 20 degrees Celsius. First day was only 11. Well, it was pretty hard to walk uphill with a 12kg rucksack on my back and my girlfriend's shopping bag. But we made it. The legs hurt like hell, the tram was full of tourists and the ride was bumpy (it cost 3.3eur per person). First time I went uphill with a train. Marvellous. On top I snapped some photos of the beautiful Hong Kong skyline. It's really breathtaking, a scenery full of skyscrapers. I guess only New York can keep up with Hong kong in that regard.
It was a great image for the end of this trip, I will always hold and treasure it.

Who knows how many times I will have the chance to return to this beautiful city. Maybe never again.
But I can always proudly say, I've been there, I saw almost everything and I can advise you. Even though it was only 5 days, Hong Kong is easy to grasp, easy to get the orientation and the feel of the city. I would gladly stay for a longer period in Hong Kong. I could stay up to 90 days, if I had the cash. Maybe one day... Maybe... Goodbye, Hong Kong...

[All photos by MKL, 2009]

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Rabu, 24 Desember 2008

Western guy living in a Chinese family

Let me share my experience

Let me share a unique experience with you. I happened to live in a Chinese family for three months and I wanna share my observations with you. This may be useful for those Westerners, who don't know a lot about Chinese culture and wants to know more. First, the facts:

How big is the family?

Ok, first I must say, I live in a quite big family for these modern times. It's a middle class family, consisting of parents, grandma, 1 grandchild and 5 daughters, of which the youngest is 17 and the oldest 25. Three daughters are already married and live on their own, but visit every day. So all together there is 8 daughters (between 17 and 30 years old). Two of which have already children, so sometimes there's 4 grandchildren at the house.

What did I notice?

A Chinese family of this size and consisting of so many women can be very noisy. But that's only at the first glance. Soon I realized that they are very friendly and hospitable towards me. Food is the central part of the family. For Chinese in general, the food is the most important thing. I saw them spend a lot of money on all kinds of food. They would even travel more than 100km just to go eat into a restaurant that has some unique and delicious food. Chinese are very genorous. They treat me so much, I stopped counting and I accepted it as normal. In my country, you always remember who treated you and you seek to treat him back. I can't keep up with my new friends here. They are too genorous. Even when I tried to treat them back, they refused by saying: When I'm in your country, you treat me. It's very unlikely that this will be the case. But I accept it and if really that was to happen, I would gladly return the hospitality at home.
Besides food, Chinese are very traditional. When it comes to family values and friendships, Chinese tend to have very good relations and they respect the elderly more than the Westerners. They also respect their ancestors by lighting sticks every day at the domestic temple and by praying every day and following all other traditional celabrations, of which the most important is Chinese New Year.
Chinese here (Johor, Malaysia) don't have many encounters with Westerners, probably because it's a small town and a rural area. That's why they are curious to see me. Most of them are not fluent in english. The few who are, have many questions. The first one is usually 'Where are you from?' followed by 'Have you eaten already'? As mentioned before, food is very important in the daily life of Chinese. That's why when they have 'small talk', usual question would be: Have you eaten already? ( 你吃了?)
If you consider all the facts, Chinese people can be seen as conservative, but in some cases very progressive and modern. Especially the young people copy the fashion styles of the West or Japan. Older people are naturally more conservative, but most of them allow the young people their way of life and they are non-judgmental. Somehow all generations can find a common ground and stick together as a family. Chinese don't like to talk about their family problems to outsiders. It stays in the family.

In conclusion.

I'm glad to see a culture as complex as Chinese from so close and learn so many new things about it and correct my perception or stereotypical thinking. I hope I will learn more and get to see many more aspects of Chinese culture in the weeks ahead. I especially look forward to Chinese new year 2009.

[My MALAYSIA page][All photos by MKL, 2008]

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Rabu, 05 November 2008

Victory for Barack Obama!

Finally!!! It happened beyond our wildest dreams! Barack Obama won the elections on 2008 and he will be the next president of the USA. I am so proud of the US people and I really don't know, if it's more of a Obama victory or a more of a victory of the American people.
I was awake all night, I watched CNN and some other programmes... It was just incredible, when we saw how he took Pennsylvania, Ohio... I almost thought this is it! But I was still sceptical... When i saw his lead in Florida, I was confident! He exceeded all expectations - it was a landslide victory. And his speach was breath taking. A moment we will always remember. America is truly a land of opportunity and equality, you just need to work hard, be honest and have ideas. He beat the establishment of his own party and the best candidate of his rival's party. I can't fully grasp what this win means. It has to sink in...
I also need to praise McCain for his marvellous concession speech. He showed his real face, that's the McCain we missed in these months. You can clearly see how relieved he was, how gracious and humble. I hope he will have a long life. He's a great American. Unfortunately, his campaign sucked, had too many lows, too little highs.
I'm also happy that there's no more Sarah Palin. She was really a disgrace for this year of change. This was McCain's biggest mistakes. People were more scared of Palin than Obama.
And now, I hope America can head into a new direction of working together with the rest of the world, solving global problems together, ending wars and restoring confidence in the West.

Good luck!
[Photo: Source]

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